Cheating.

Cheating on a good woman with something basic, I mean your girlfriend is pretty and loyal, so why flirt & cheat with other girls?... That's like throwing away a precious diamond and picking up fake pearls.

Cheating makes me sick. If you don't want to be committed into a relationship, then don’t get into one? Simple as that. I don’t understand why people cheat in a relationship. Are you not satisfied? If not, why are you in one to begin with? It is the most disrespectful and dishonest thing someone could do to the one that they love, or supposedly love. It breaks the trust, the bond that you had with that person, and you have to live with the fact that you cheated for the rest of your life.

I've been cheated on, well by my High School boyfriend before not just once or twice but thrice. One for every year that we've been together, pretty cool huh? I didn't really tolerate it, it's just that when you love someone, you love even the monster in them... because you have that 'faith' that someday they would change for the better. && If that happens you want to be there for them, to be their rock.. but that's not what happened so we broke up, I just realized that I don't want to be on that same spot all over again.. to be on the repeat cycle of his cheating escapades. I mean what if we've been able to be together for 10 more years would that also mean that he would continue to cheat on me with 10 more women?

I've seen my friends be cheated on, and what it does to them, it breaks their spirit, their trust to any other man for the fear that it would happen again to them. It's a shame because those people who are more loyal and not to mention faithful are always the victims of cheating.

There's this girl, not that i really know her personally but i think she's nice, her boyfriend acts like he's the most faithful guy in the whole world, does sweet things, says sweet things and all.. but when she's not around.. that boyfriend of hers becomes some kind of a monster... like someone who became lose, cheating and cheating. We have this school event, and her boyfriend went to it but with another girl, they've been out the whole night and obviously there's something going on with them, and to add to the fire, they have a 'thing' that's been going on for months. It's not a secret to the whole school so I doubt if the 'girlfriend' who's from another school knows about this. Saddening/
Sometimes, I really just wanna know why people think it’s ok to play people. Like, for real. I just wish, for once, someone would take a step back and think about how they’re treating other people. How can they so carefreely handle liking someone when they already have a gf/bf? Why would you try to make a move on someone when you’re in a relationship? It doesn’t even make sense… And then if they are caught cheating they would say that it was just an accident, like oooops i've tripped and we had s*x. Seriously? *raised eyebrows.

For the girls out there, remember this, never settle for being someones "other" when you have the potential to be someones "only".

P.S Girls, be also emphatic . As much as you don't want other girls flirting with your boyfriend/hubby, be decent enough to shun away from guys who are already committed.

bloggin'
xx, myarah

15 comments

Gisella | April 23, 2012 at 12:07 PM

very gooood!!! haha where have you been, i missed your posts!!!

Anonymous | April 23, 2012 at 10:23 PM

I love this!!! :)

Chelsie Ancheta | April 23, 2012 at 10:53 PM

Very well said :)

Anonymous | April 23, 2012 at 10:54 PM

really relate on this blog :))good job marah <3

Estarlie | April 23, 2012 at 11:00 PM
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Estarlie | April 23, 2012 at 11:01 PM

`Nice blog.:)

Anonymous | April 23, 2012 at 11:08 PM

Your english is fair for a Filipino but I think you should brush up more on your words because they sound very simple as if constructed by a 4th grader. And I also noticed a few mistakes with the contruction.

But still, this blog is very nice. I can relate to every post.

Marah Gaa | April 23, 2012 at 11:42 PM

Gisella - thanks!!!

Anon1 - thank youu!!

Chelsie - thanks baby girl :)

Anon2 - wow, thank youu1!!

Estarlie - thank youu!! :)

Anon3 - I really appreciate your critic, i really like learning more... but I just dont agree with the '4th grader thingy' HAHA i just don't wanna use highfalutin words.. i cater to the young adults.. sorry for the minor mistakes, i'm really not a writer whatsoever :D and p.s. 4th Graders doesn't compare 'accidents' to ' tripping & having sex' - THANKS for liking this :)

Anonymous | April 23, 2012 at 11:43 PM

for your info she just prefer using simple words rather than highfalutin words so that everyone can understand easily what she wants to say, i know she can do better than this.

Marah Gaa | April 23, 2012 at 11:50 PM

Anon 4 - thank you so much :D , you have too much faith on me, i might disappoint you, you know.. so don't raise your hopes, up. :)

Giselle Miller | April 23, 2012 at 11:55 PM

I can't see any mistakes, i'm an American, and it's my language. We also use, "How is you?" instead of how are you. Yea grammatically wrong, but socially accepted!

If this was a work of a fourth grader, dammit, she's already in college!

ILOVETHIS, keep it up marah! everybody makes mistakes, nobody's perfect.. if the american natives makes mistakes with their language so it's just natural that non-american makes mistakes too :)



Love, Giselle Miller

Marah Gaa | April 24, 2012 at 12:11 AM

Gisella Miller - Thank you soooo much! Yea i've noticed when I was in North Dakota or even New York, not that I would make a big fuss about it. coz I live by the mantra nobody's perfect.. hehehe I think they commit major mistakes on the subject-verb agreement just like everybody else. They even misuse is and are. :) and

P.S even their PUBLISHED books that are supposedly be evaluated by the experts has errors too, not typos but grammatically-

to name a few: some parts of Eclipse & breaking Dawn, Stephenie Meyer and Uglies by Scott Westerfeld. -- I should know because i've read these few. :D

Anonymous | April 24, 2012 at 12:25 AM

ang galing mo ate :* fave ko po talga ung blog nio :)

nicolettey | April 24, 2012 at 4:02 PM

superGirl ka talaga mara :))

anthonette | April 24, 2012 at 7:05 PM

Finally! nabasa ko na! haha.I've been cheated also before. #fudge Anyway, two thumbs up for this blog post babe! you already! :))

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