Bros Before Hoes.

Bros before Hoes you may be wondering why i chose the guys version instead of the Chicks before D*cks. I mean it's obvious it's less 'R-18-. :) *wink* LOL 
“People in pain don’t always see things as clearly as they should.”— Nicholas Sparks (The Best of Me)
Whether guys do it intentionally or not, they hurt us. They hurt us when they love us or when they don’t. Love hurts. It’s practically an injury. Sometimes, most of the time, it’s worth it. Whether you get the fairytale ending or the tragic cliff hanger- it’s worth it, because it makes you, you.

“No I am right, you are wrong. Just you wait and see” blah blah blah And then that moment comes.

“Bro, I TOLD you so”

I have this good friend who's basically 'love-sick', over-the-top in love with an unworthy, such a pain-in-the-ass, disgraced-to-the-male-population guy. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE. But no matter what he does, good and majorly bad, she can't seem to control herself to fall even more. Yupp, i know we've heard love is blind. Typical same old story boy-meet-girl-then-she-falls-too-much-harder-than-him.

Don't get me wrong, i'm not sharing her story to all of you guys... just to give your pity on her or just to show how bad men can be or what a loser my friends is when it comes to love. I'm sharing this (which i have her blessing) because i truly admire her... to love without expecting anything in return even if she's hurting 10x worse. For me those kind of girls are truly strong and lucky is the RIGHT man who can have her.

Almost every week we chatted, to catch up with what's happening to our lives, we banter, we joked, basically we're what you called goodfriends. We have this friendly relationship that's kind of weird to other people because we insulted each other but we never got offended whenever we talked, it's like our routine and if we don't do it... we'll come to the conclusion that there's something wrong. Her name's Keiko HAHAHA :)

The guy that she's super in love with (for almost 2 years now) is confusing, one day he'll show her that she's all the he can think of and then the next day he'll treat her like a total stranger. They never got to the point to have a formal relationship. He's Mr. Mixed Signals so my friend becomes Ms. Second Thoughts. It's getting complicated, then it came to the point that he's flirting with every girl that they're both friends with. The nerve!! Obviously he tries so hard to make her jealous but why?. I guess there are really those kind of guys who plays with other people's feeling. Sometimes i think if you put a make-up and a dress to a pole, he'll flirt with that too! The guy knows what my friend feels about him but he doesn't care. What kind of a man is he? Hey if you don't like her, i think it's best to tell her straight! Truth hurts, but pretending is worse.

I always told her to never give the guy the satisfaction to know that she's always there for him. She should tell him to stop coming back to her when things don't work out with "her." He know she loves him and she can't say no to him so he's using that to play or taunt with her feelings. Keiko is a very intelligent girl and she needs to learn to stand up for herself and try to make herself happy rather than him and everyone else all the time because it's only making her depressed and that's draining her physically, mentally, and emotionally. I guess, It's time for a change.
Bros before hoes! Why? Because your bros are always there for you. They have got your back after your ho rips your heart out for no good reason. And you were nothing but great to your ho, and you told her that she was the only ho for you, and that she was better than all the other hoes in the world. And then… then suddenly, she’s not your ho no mo’.”
— Michael Scott, The Office.
But i won't push her if she can't do it yet, i mean she knows i'm always be here for her coz i'm her hype girl!.. for me boys come and go but true friends are forever. && He may give up on her but i won't give up on her. I think it's nicer to know that if everything doesn't go the way that you want them to at least you have friends out there who can help you carry the burden. (:

xx, myarah


Anonymous | October 27, 2011 at 8:13 PM

omg.. im really touched by every words that you said. seriously the first thing that came from my mind when ive finished reading your post is that "im really soo blessed to have you as my friend" like you i will always be here. you know that. and i will always be grateful to God for giving me a friend/sister/bro like you. iloveyou and thankyou :) it almost made me cry :') hate you haha do this again (make me barely cry i mean)and ill punch u kidding :))LOVEYOU soo much -u know who i am :)

myarahh | October 27, 2011 at 9:07 PM

HAHA yuppp i know who you are! - iloveyou too keiks! khit ganyan ka >;) joke! haha -Anonymous pa tlga! (:

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