If he can't handle you at your worst, he don't deserve you at your best -Marilyn Monroe
Depressed, that's my mood for today. I have a friend who passed away a week ago. She died with a broken heart because her husband called it quits. So she committed suicide. I feel like crying now, because she's a very sweet girl and full of dreams. When i first heard the news i was so stunned, she was so young. She got so much ahead for her future. Another one is a friends who is very close to him... her boyfriend broke up with her. Leaving her in the state of melancholy and confusion. Don't know what to do, don't know how to move forward. Don't know how to start again and fix things for the better.
It's very saddening to know that many girls suffers from a bad heartbreak (the one that you know that doesn't have a chance to be revive, that heartbreak is what i'm talking about.) & the girls that doesn't have a way to figure out how to handle it. I dedicate this post to them, to those girls that didn't know how amazing they are, that there are many boys that are dying just to be with them and to those who think negative thoughts because the biggest love of their lives broke their hearts.
You think because he doesn’t love you that you are worthless.
You think that because he doesn’t want you anymore that he is right — that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him.
Don’t. It’s a bad word, ‘belong.’
Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can’t even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, beacuse the clouds let him; they don’t wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can’t own a human being. You can’t lose what you don’t own.
Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don’t, do you? And neither does he. You’re turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can’t value you more than you value yourself.
Don’t rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can’t love and respect yourself - no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are - completely; the good and the bad - and make changes as YOU see fit - not because you think someone else wants you to be different.
You are beautiful, strong and an independent woman. Be unique just the way you are.